Yeah It sucks but if she doesn't feel a connection anymore I don't think there is anything you can do. All I gotta say is think positive and try and get through it. Don't think about it too much and just do something that will keep your head free like playing Xbox or going to the gym if you do.

Normally i would be a dick in these situations by saying something like 'This is a gaming website' or something along those lines, but I've thought about it.. and i was just being a dick. I'm going to say i hope you get through it man, must of been tough knowing her for years for her to just say something like that. Try asking her what she means? I'm here if you need me man.

^ agreed ask her try talked by to her. Change your ways You have to keep the relationship spiced up Just see if she will talk to you and talk thru things. And then once you talk maybe it will be easier on the break up you will find out if the two of you can work it out or just be easier to move on. But don't pressure her just ask if you can talk and don't kiss her ass to beg her to come back. And if she doesn't want to talk then your going to have to let go.

I like to think everything happens for a reason. Good luck man

she doesn't feel a connection anymore for some reason.

Girls say this all the time. I've heard it more than once. There is always a reason.

how do you guys deal with your break-ups? just wanted to know.

1. Do not contact her, for any reason. If she left you, why should you give the slightest shit how she feels? I realize you've known her for years, but come on, she didn't care when she left. Why should you?

I can almost promise you, she will contact you soon. Apologizing, or begging for you to take her back by coming up with some sort of pity story claiming it was a "mistake".

If that happens, it's up to you what you do. However, I'm strongly suggesting you ingorne the attempt to contact, and leave this girl in your past and move on.

but i'm slowly getting through it. nothing lasts forever, right?

No, nothing lasts forever. I'm not a negative person, just a realist. I don't know how old you are, but if you're young, I'm sorry to say it was bound to end anyway.

You're better than her. Do not let this bring you down. Don't try for a rebound relationship. Better yourself, focus on your hobbies, find new passions. You'll feel so much better soon, believe it or not.

Take care bud.

Sounds really shitty but i went and hooked up with someone else after i broke up with my Ex, it worked though. Didn't care about anything after that

Get with her friend

Video Games. I play video games to deal with any stress.

Marriage should last a lifetime, a relationship sometimes is not meant to be. I didn't date a lot of females in my teens as I dated them for years, and most of the time moved away due to family jobs. I dreaded it and thought it was the end of the world but I am now 29 years old, with two kids and a beautiful wife of 8 years. God has blessed me, I wouldn't change my past relationships as they made me stronger and want to treat the next with more respect and showed them more affection as in showing that I cared for them. Most women or girls want attention if you aren't giving it they will find it somewhere else.


Keep your head up, treat the next one better and don't rush into dating just based off looks. Find someone you have things in common with and activities that you guys enjoy together.

God will place someone in your path man when you are least expecting it