Zag wrote Oh shit, I had the exact same thing sort of, ended it like 2-3 weeks ago.. Minus the self harm part but add another 6 months.. Anyway I just ended up not caring anymore, decided she was too strange so I just told her I had stopped caring etc etc and told her I wanted to stop talking/seeing her and just ignored her after I said it.. Seemed childish but like you said, everytime I was ready to call it quits she would blackmail me into staying together with her.

That was the exact same thing like literally, exact man. Good thing you got outta that I know how it feels.