You are viewing our Forum Archives. To view or take place in current topics click here.
How to talk to a girl.
Posted:

How to talk to a girl.Posted:

DBA
  • Christmas!
Status: Offline
Joined: Dec 29, 20158Year Member
Posts: 373
Reputation Power: 39
Status: Offline
Joined: Dec 29, 20158Year Member
Posts: 373
Reputation Power: 39
I really like this girl, but im not sure on how to talk to her. We go to different schools and i met her at are county fair. we snapchat a lot but i just don't know how to talk to her. and i really like her but not sure if she feels the same. any help or suggestions?

The following 1 user thanked DBA for this useful post:

TOXIC (09-11-2018)
#2. Posted:
002
  • Summer 2023
Status: Offline
Joined: Sep 25, 20149Year Member
Posts: 4,817
Reputation Power: 7282
Status: Offline
Joined: Sep 25, 20149Year Member
Posts: 4,817
Reputation Power: 7282
How old are you?

The tricky part is not seeming desperate and asking her out right away, all at the same time not being too passive and engine up in the friend zone.

Ask her out to a few things, start with something active / semi competitive like mini golf then work into a lunch or dinner.On the 3rd or so "date" when you hit the lunch / dinner ask her how she feels about you and explain that you really like her.
#3. Posted:
uwu
Status: Offline
Joined: Dec 17, 201013Year Member
Posts: 4,244
Reputation Power: 1374
Status: Offline
Joined: Dec 17, 201013Year Member
Posts: 4,244
Reputation Power: 1374
Be yourself. Do not try to pretend something you're not, be as authentic as possible.

Strike up a conversation via Snapchat, you've already got one foot ahead by just having her Snapchat. Do you have her on any other social media? Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, etc.

Once you strike up a conversation, let everything flow. Don't kill yourself trying too hard to create a conversation; most planned out conversations end up being extremely dry and you'll lose the person's interest.

Good luck!
#4. Posted:
DBA
  • Christmas!
Status: Offline
Joined: Dec 29, 20158Year Member
Posts: 373
Reputation Power: 39
Status: Offline
Joined: Dec 29, 20158Year Member
Posts: 373
Reputation Power: 39
002 wrote How old are you?

The tricky part is not seeming desperate and asking her out right away, all at the same time not being too passive and engine up in the friend zone.

Ask her out to a few things, start with something active / semi competitive like mini golf then work into a lunch or dinner.On the 3rd or so "date" when you hit the lunch / dinner ask her how she feels about you and explain that you really like her.

I'm 16. And we did hang out a lot at the fair, but that was a month ago. I will take your advice and see if she is busy.
#5. Posted:
002
  • Rated Awesome
Status: Offline
Joined: Sep 25, 20149Year Member
Posts: 4,817
Reputation Power: 7282
Status: Offline
Joined: Sep 25, 20149Year Member
Posts: 4,817
Reputation Power: 7282
95th wrote
002 wrote How old are you?

The tricky part is not seeming desperate and asking her out right away, all at the same time not being too passive and engine up in the friend zone.

Ask her out to a few things, start with something active / semi competitive like mini golf then work into a lunch or dinner.On the 3rd or so "date" when you hit the lunch / dinner ask her how she feels about you and explain that you really like her.

I'm 16. And we did hang out a lot at the fair, but that was a month ago. I will take your advice and see if she is busy.


One that's always worked for me is try to sound extremely urgent.

Me: Hey I need your help, are you available?
Her: What's up?
Me: You won't believe this...
Her: What?
Me: I have this magical (think of an object, even better if it's something tangible you can give her like a ring so further on in the relationship it has meaning) that tells me the future.
Me: Do you want to know what it's telling me?
Her: What's it saying?
Me: Are you sure you want to know? Once you know you can't un know...
Her: WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?
Me: It's telling me I'm going to be hungry this weekend. You want to get a bite to eat?
#6. Posted:
Dusknoir
  • Winter 2023
Status: Offline
Joined: Nov 02, 201310Year Member
Posts: 3,931
Reputation Power: 5625
Motto: "If love is just a word then why does it hurt so much when you realize it isn't there" - Gaara
Motto: "If love is just a word then why does it hurt so much when you realize it isn't there" - Gaara
Status: Offline
Joined: Nov 02, 201310Year Member
Posts: 3,931
Reputation Power: 5625
Motto: "If love is just a word then why does it hurt so much when you realize it isn't there" - Gaara
wish i could help m8 but I can only talk to the ladies when I'm drunk.

Lol rip.

Maybe show her your John cena muscles?
#7. Posted:
TOXIC
  • Summer 2023
Status: Offline
Joined: Jan 16, 201212Year Member
Posts: 22,328
Reputation Power: 32745
Motto: TTGS #1 SHIT POSTER!
Motto: TTGS #1 SHIT POSTER!
Status: Offline
Joined: Jan 16, 201212Year Member
Posts: 22,328
Reputation Power: 32745
Motto: TTGS #1 SHIT POSTER!
Flirty banta is the best bet mate, works everytime, just make sure you dont go in the friend zone.
#8. Posted:
Maze
  • Gold Gifter
Status: Offline
Joined: Nov 24, 201112Year Member
Posts: 13,688
Reputation Power: 40001
Motto: All Time High Monthly Posts achieved in June 2018. jukly forever. #BanC4
Motto: All Time High Monthly Posts achieved in June 2018. jukly forever. #BanC4
Status: Offline
Joined: Nov 24, 201112Year Member
Posts: 13,688
Reputation Power: 40001
Motto: All Time High Monthly Posts achieved in June 2018. jukly forever. #BanC4
Why don't you just ask her if she wants to hangout on the weekend or after school some day? I know it seems intimidating to do, but it's really not all that intense. Mind over matter my friend, just take it a bit slow and hang out with her one on one and enjoy each other's company.
#9. Posted:
Loke
  • Ninja
Status: Offline
Joined: Oct 12, 201112Year Member
Posts: 6,127
Reputation Power: 26326
Motto: Luna my boyfriend :3 || oh I'm also probably brain damaged or something idk
Motto: Luna my boyfriend :3 || oh I'm also probably brain damaged or something idk
Status: Offline
Joined: Oct 12, 201112Year Member
Posts: 6,127
Reputation Power: 26326
Motto: Luna my boyfriend :3 || oh I'm also probably brain damaged or something idk
ok so here's what you do just walk up to her and say



That's a nice smile. It'd look better if it was all you were wearing!

then u hit her with the



[ Register or Signin to view external links. ]


Leaked photo of her after my steps

[ Register or Signin to view external links. ]
#10. Posted:
BLVD
  • TTG Contender
Status: Offline
Joined: Aug 13, 20149Year Member
Posts: 3,632
Reputation Power: 509
Status: Offline
Joined: Aug 13, 20149Year Member
Posts: 3,632
Reputation Power: 509
Create small talk, begin with trying to become her friend once friends it flows from there buddy. If it don't flow then she aint interested


Jump to:
You are viewing our Forum Archives. To view or take place in current topics click here.