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So I need some advice before I go crazy..

So me and this girl were a "thing" yes I know, "thing" a dumb high school term. This means, we hung out all the time, talked, went on dates and everything. Well things have been going great until she went to her exes house.. She has to go there once a month, I don't know why don't ask. Well ever since then she has been distant and wants space. Now I have a lot of feelings for this girl, because while we were a "thing" we had sex 8 times.. But ever since she went there things aren't the same. Shes all talkative with other guys but gets pissy with me. Her BFF tells me to stay cool and let things play out. But its so hard knowing the girl I like moved on but wont tell me shes done. So what should I do, this has really been killing me lately.. Should I stay and try and work it out, or should I just move on..
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Based off of what you said, if she moved on or is stuck on her ex then in my opinion your sol so Id have to say unfortunately your gonna have to move on and if you do want to work things out and succeed your always gonna have to worry about that happening again just giving you advice off of past experiences considering ive had a lot of female problems and ive had one similar to this but I wish you the best of luck man!
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Just move on! Literally within 2 seconds of reading this post you stated "she has to go to her ex's house". That right there should tell you something is up man.
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She might not have the same perspective as you do about the whole situation. I suggest you give this short article quick skimming. It might help you out: [ Register or Signin to view external links. ]
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I honestly would forget about her
Why would you want to be with a girl who hangs with her ex? I know I wouldn't put up with that.
Especially since you had sex with her. Sex makes you attached and can make things complicated.

But I would honestly try moving on because she doesn't care enough about your feelings so why should you care about hers
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Sounds like my second ever girlfriend freshman year, except we only kissed on the cheek once lmao
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Dude, I know them feels, confront her about it
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You should move on because it's one girl in high school and you're gonna meet a million more girls before you die.
All this won't matter a year from now, don't sweat it.
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1080 wrote So I need some advice before I go crazy..

So me and this girl were a "thing" yes I know, "thing" a dumb high school term. This means, we hung out all the time, talked, went on dates and everything. Well things have been going great until she went to her exes house.. She has to go there once a month, I don't know why don't ask. Well ever since then she has been distant and wants space. Now I have a lot of feelings for this girl, because while we were a "thing" we had sex 8 times.. But ever since she went there things aren't the same. Shes all talkative with other guys but gets pissy with me. Her BFF tells me to stay cool and let things play out. But its so hard knowing the girl I like moved on but wont tell me shes done. So what should I do, this has really been killing me lately.. Should I stay and try and work it out, or should I just move on..


had the same issue with one of my exes but turns out she cheated on me like 900 times and fcked me over
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