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yhh
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So i am 18 and my girlfriend is 17 we have been dating for about 6 months now and everything in the beginning was fine until about 3 months ago when we started arguing and it feels like its making me and her change towards each other i know we both love each other alot but its just the arguing but the thing is we argue over pretty much nothing and yes we have our jealously and stuff like that but yeah i just need some advice on what to do because we seem to keep arguing over nothing.
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Just try to resolve the arguments, buy gifts etc.. if nothing works and you are still not getting on then the relationship isn't working, and probably won't ever work.
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I've been through this stuff too many times to count and me and my missus argue about any old thing haha, I think it's because the honeymoon phase is over and you are both still getting to k ow each other. What I do when arguments flare up is just try diffuse them as quickly as possible because after every argument, you'll both realise just how much you mean to each other, relationships really aren't easy. All you need to do is sit her down, talk everything over and try and find what actually triggers the arguments and then you both can work towards a solution that will keep you both happy and together.
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either be prepared to talk about it and fix your issues or just leave her.
No point being in a toxic relationship
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Yall needa F*CK and Make Up, LOL
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Skylancer wroteJust try to resolve the arguments, buy gifts etc.. if nothing works and you are still not getting on then the relationship isn't working, and probably won't ever work.

Use gifts to resolve an arguement?
This is probably the one thing I'd say definetly don't do, you want to be able to resolve arguements alone with nothing else but yourself.
#7. Posted:
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Too young to be arguing about pointless shit in my opinion. I'd say you either try to resolve it your arguing issues overall, if you can't then take a break
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Gaps wroteToo young to be arguing about pointless shit in my opinion. I'd say you either try to resolve it your arguing issues overall, if you can't then take a break


I completely agree with what you're saying bro, if a break is taken, it could be seen as a fresh start in a way but it should only be used as a last resort, a break is never an easy thing to do
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If you're already arguing with her and you're only 18 & 17 then I don't think it'll last at all. If you can't resolve things with her just by talking with her then you should probably find someone else. Good luck though.
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Thanks for all your guys support i am going to talk to her about everything and see how it goes from there because i really do love her
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