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I think I'm emotionally scarred. Any tips?
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So. Where to start? I started dating this girl who was issued to guys coming any going in her life. Guys who would only try and screw her and leave her. So we started dating, and I proved to her that she would have the best life she could've ever had settled down. Fast forward, she ended up cheating on me. Further down the road, I tried moving on with another girl. We started "talking". But I couldn't do it. It didn't feel right. So I called it quits before we were together. 3 more months down the road, I tried getting with another girl. But things just weren't going good. We couldn't ever spend time with each other. And it just wasn't working. But when I lay down at nights, I think of her sometimes.(My ex who cheated) It feels kind of weird to be with someone els I guess.. I don't know? It's been a total of 8 months. But we did everything together. I don't know what to do. What do I do?

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that situation was pretty ironic. She has a fear of something she done ? hypocritical asshole.
It wasn't genuine love so there is no reason to miss it. Write your thoughts down because it feels like you just have bottled up emotions. All the best man pm me if you want to talk or ask for advice etc
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Only other option is to turn gay.
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Don't know when this site went from a gaming forum to Dr. Phil, but that's my 2 cents.

Anyway. Don't sweat it bro. If she cheated then what you had there wasn't meant to be. Push it out of your mind and keep moving forward. May be hard, but only thing to do if you want to live your life.
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LaFlare wrote Don't know when this site went from a gaming forum to Dr. Phil, but that's my 2 cents.

Anyway. Don't sweat it bro. If she cheated then what you had there wasn't meant to be. Push it out of your mind and keep moving forward. May be hard, but only thing to do if you want to live your life.


There's always been occasional relationship based topics, nothings changed lmao
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Just go out and get another girl


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BigBrotherIsWatching wrote Only other option is to turn gay.


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she's not worth it lol. SHE cheated, she lost YOU. there's no reason to feel down especially after 8 months. she will realize what she had and she'll regret it all.. trust me.
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op **** that bitch have some self respect and move on
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I understand what you are going through, I have been there before. It is rough, it truly is. You have to look past her. Look at all the negatives she brought to your life. She cheated on you man, not the other way around. I know it is hard, but find something to replace her in your life. Game more, go out with friends, watch movies. Don't live your life dwelling on a girl that cheated, spend your life enjoying it and preparing for your soul mate.
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